Monday, April 7, 2014

Dear Bah...


please I need help.
Thank you for this forum, i pray you can help me.
I have been a single mom for several years now.
It all started in 2007. My life quickly changed as my kids father went to prison for seven years for a bank fraud he knew nothing about, and I was left to handle everything, my house & my 2 children, as years passed things got worse I had to start a part-time business to complement my salary from work, just to support my family as well as my home, I try so hard to provide for my children as I struggled as years passed.
Now my husband will soon be released, and i just dont know what to feel, i have lost contact with his family, except his friend who has always helped and encouraged me. As if what i am going through is not enough now i have to cater for a man, who only God knows what has become of him right now.
Any moment now i know i will soon be called upon. Please i need advice from whoever can understand what im going through
Dear Bah...


please I need help.
I will be having my final semester examination by next month.
I have two carry-over(failed) papers which i will be writing, if i fail them again(God forbid), i will end up having an extra year.
I am from a comfortable home, and ever since my 300level my parents have been insisting on me doing my MSc abroad, an idea which i loved so much and encouraged them.
Now my dad has started processes for me to meet up with the Nov. intakes. the man is so proud of his son and believes so much in him.
right now i am under serious pressure, to make sure i graduate with my set. This exam has to favor me, because i don't know what i would do if it does not, i don't know how to face my parents if anything goes wrong, i cant even think of sorting because the lecturer involved is a very strict Prof who just does not like my face.
Dear Bah...


please I need help.
I am a woman in my late Twenties(gradually closing up to 30).
my problem started in my mid twenties when i met this guy. he was so caring and showed me lots of love, things moved so fast, and before i knew it we were everywhere together, i was so much in love then.
The problem started when i discovered i was pregnant for him, i told him i was pregnant and he became furious, he stopped calling, stopped talking to me and even ignored my calls. thank God for my mother, she was my pillar then. till i gave birth to a boy(my sweet angel Tunji), he is my all.
though he has down-Syndrome and rarely talks, always playing and he's so sweet.
The problem now is i met this guy, who really wants to marry me, he seems serious because when i told him about my having a son, he accepted to be his step father.
i have never told him the condition my boy is in, and i'm scared of his reaction if i am to tell him, i love him so much and do not want to loose him.

Dear Bah...



Please I need help.
I am only 14 years old but i feel so lost. It feels like nobody is ever there for me.
My parents are separated, i stay with my mom. i am not allowed to see my father, and my mother is always working.
I have a lot of issues bothering on my mind, issues i feel i need a father to talk to, my friends are not helping either because i fear they might lead me wrongly
i cant seem to have faith in anything.
Please i just need to know what i can do to make this all go away.